If you're new to the Appleton area, you should know about an excellent group that might be just what you need: The Appleton Area Newcomer's Club. I've known a number of people that received a lot of help from the Club in making new friends, and learning about and adjusting to the area. From their Website:

The Appleton Area Newcomer's Club was founded over 40 years ago. The main purpose of the club is to provide an opportunity for new residents to develop friendships, learn about the area, and become involved through a number of social, cultural, and community service activities. We are a social organization for couples, singles and their families. Our activities are organized around the interests of the club members and provide a great way to make new friends and at the same time have fun.

As a member of the Newcomer's Club, you will receive a monthly newsletter with the detailed information about our many socials and all the activities that we host and coordinate. You will also receive a member directory which is invaluable for communicating with the people you will meet at the various club functions.

Go to their Website and contact them today if you are new or will be moving here soon. Great resource!